The type of man women never want to lose, according to a dating coach

Women have walked away from rich men (remember Monica ditched Pete Becker?), attractive men ( Rachel Green-Paolo), and even men who remembered their coffee order and showed up with flowers on a Tuesday (Rachel-Joey Tribbiani)? None of that mattered. So what does? According to dating coach Blaine Anderson, grand gestures or good genes have nothing to do with a woman wanting to stay or leave. But there are certain traits in a man that women are attracted towards and never walk away from. What are they? Let’s find out!

Men who do not snap or shut down or go quiet when things get difficult are the ones who win the match. Women want to be with men who don’t fall apart under pressure. Because relationships are going to have their ups and downs. So having someone who can face it is crucial.

Women love quiet confidence. Not the performative one. They don’t want to be with someone who is always playing to the room. Things like over-explaining and trying too hard aren’t exactly attractive qualities.

Now this one is crucial. Every woman seeks a protective partner. Not just physically, but emotionally. She wants to let her inner child out while being with her partner. Someone whom she can trust and be vulnerable with. Someone who would not throw her under the bus when life gets difficult. That’s the kind of man worth keeping.

This is where most people go wrong. Yes, women want to be valued in a relationship. But that doesn’t mean you have to be obsessed with the relationship. The man women stay with is not the one who makes her his entire world. She would rather have him have his own individuality, friendships, ambitions, interests, and a sense of self that existed before she arrived.

They want men with standards. The one who knows what he’ll tolerate and what he won’t. The one who respects himself. The one who does not abandon his values to keep the peace. Women admire men who know self-worth.

Purpose is pure magnetic. Women are drawn towards visionary partners. This does not mean you should have a grand mission to conquer the earth. But having a purpose and passion is important. Women want men who have a direction, not someone in the dark.